How do you know you love someone

How do you do know when you love someone? A very interesting question. I was asked this question recently how do I know I love her? I was told maybe you just love being with her or maybe you love her company. If you ask me you just know it when you love someone. It is easy to say "I Love You" in words to someone but to Love someone it is more than just saying I Love You as it is about Loving them. It is about caring for them, it is about feeling happy for them it is about being there for them at any cost and it is when someone mentions their name it brings smile on your face. It is about not putting any conditions when you love them. You don't force people to Love you back just because you love them. Love is a strong feeling and you just know the feeling when it happens as I did. But if you are not sure about your feelings there are ways to know as identified below:

• The most common but most important feeling is the indescribable butterflies in your stomach.
• When you can't stop thinking about the person despite all your effort, you may be in love.
• When the mention of the name is enough to bring a smile to your face, then you may have fallen in love
• When you start caring for the person more than you even care for yourself.
• One sure-fire factor is that you care for him/her like a family or even more than a family and you feel happy when your partner is happy. Actually love is feeling of oneness and when your start enjoying the joys of your partner you should know your are in love
• When you are in love, you feel fiercely protective about your partner and you feel proud of them
• It is truly said that when you are in love, you have no eye for anyone other than for each other. If you don't mind hugging, holding and kissing your partner in public then you surely love your partner more than anything else.
• If you just play online horrorscope or love quiz on the internet then you may be love.
• When your heart skips a beat every time you see him/her you may be in love
• When he/she is the first thing in your mind when you wake up and the last thing when you go to sleep
• When even after a hectic schedule and a bad day at work, a glimpse of him/her can make you forget about all the bad things that had happened to you that day
• And lastly when you feel you have become a better person after you have met him/her. All your doubts disappear and you feel happier and when you have gained more self confidence.

Your Mesmerizing Eyes

Looking at your Eyes, it mesmerizes me,
I love your eyes, those twinkling eyes
They speak of a thousand things

They glow and I drown in their intensity
I would love to stay there forever
They give me a lot of memories
And leaves an imprint on me

I consider myself lucky enough
To be seen by them
To feel their warmth

The world seems to be in celestial lights
Like the glory and freshness of your eyes
Just like the morning dew
Exotic, Sultry and beautiful

Everytime I look into your eyes
I am lost in innumerable memories
Thus forgetting the world behind me
Everytime I look into your eyes I tell the truth

I wouldn't expect anything much
Than just being the Apple Of Your Eyes
Those Mesmerizing Eyes Of Yours
Enchanting me always and forever

Find a guy

Met a friend today, who's wife is pregnant and due anytime and our conversation turned to what she saw in him to get married to him. She gave couple of interesting insights and I would like to share what she said. Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of nice, ok, and hot. A guy who calls you back when you hang up on him. A guy who will lie under the stars at the beach and listens to your heartbeat (Hey this my opinion) to which my friends wife said that only happens in movies and not in real life...hmmmmm and also my opinion again which Ifeel it should be a guy who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
A guy(My opinion too) who kisses your forehead and who wants to show you off to the world even when she is just wearing track pants. A guy who holds your hands (Her opinion)in front of his friends and who thinks you are just as beautiful without makeup on. One who is consistently (Now this is my opinion) reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU...The one who turns to his friends and says 'Thats HER'.............

What I Can Do......

I can't give solutions to all of life's problems, doubts, or fears. But I can listen to you, and together we will search for answers. I can't change your past with all it's heartache and pain(if any) not the future with its untold stories but I can be there now when you need me to care.
I can't keep your feet from stumbling. I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall. Your joys, triumphs, successes, and happiness are not mine yet I can share in your laughter. Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge. I can only support you, encourage you, and help you when you ask.
I can't prevent you from falling away from your values, from me. I can only pray for you and talk to you. I can't give you boundaries which I have determined for you but I can give you the room to change, room to grow, room to be yourself and above all your own freedom. I can't keep your heart from breaking and hurting, but I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces and put them back in place. And I will always be there for you............

GOD gave us special friends

GOD knew that everyone needs companionship and cheer. He knew that people need someone whose thoughts are always near if not the same. Well GOD also knew people need someone kind to lend a helping hand. Someone to gladly take the time to care and understand. GOD knew that we all need someone to share each happy day, to be source of courage, encouragement, motivation when troubles come our way.
Someone to be true to us is not easy to find, whether near or far apart. Someone whose love we will always hold and treasure in our hearts. That's why GOD gave us special friends like you.

You Touched My Soul

This is for you my dearest special friend, the one person I can tell my soul to. The one person who can relate to me like no other and the one who I can laugh with to no extents and who can listen to me when I need an ear.
Since I know you, never have you turned your back on me or told me I wasn't good enough but always there to listen to my past and ease the burden that I have been carrying for the past 7 years. I don't think you know what that means to me. You have your own problems but still you have time for me. I look up to you because you are strong, caring and beautiful eventhough you don't think you are.
And I hope you know that I am always here to listen to you laugh and cry and help in all the ways that I can and I will always be there for you. You are the kind of star that always sparkle and look different from others. You are that star with whom I spoke my life without any reservations. You are that star with whom I speak when I am sad.
I want you to know that you are like that beautiful rainbow to me that makes me smile when I am going through a storm. You are the one who makes me feel that I am someone of high level and have duties to carry on. Now you have become an inspiration to me when I have lost all hopes on friendship and you bring out the world inside me that I never knew I had. You always put yourself down in front of me but I know you are being modest. That makes you unique and a star compared to the rest.
You are one friend for whom I would like to take millions of birth to thank you for what you have done for me.... from the beginning to the end. You are the friend in front of whom I never make excuses and never tell lies because you know me better than anyone would ever had and you know me by my faults and demerits rather than my few good points.
You are the friend who is always close to me on whom I can always count on and who multiplies my JOYS and SORROWS by a smile and a laugh and on Whatsapp(which can go on for hours until the wee hours of the morning) You are like a candle who's flame glows brighter at the time of darkness.
You are the friend who is always there and will be always there in my life no matter what, no matter where I go and not like the waves upon the sand day and night.
I want you to know as the time is getting closer for me to embark on my next journey in my life, that each day, each moment spent with you is better than the last and my first day spent with you was the best day of my life. You did not complaint about the long walking journey to the car park when others would have complained but instead you saw it in a very positive way. To have you now in my life is of the highest delight. Now I value you more than I value my life so when I say YOU ARE MY SPECIAL BEST FRIEND it just means YOU ARE MY LIFE.
I THANK YOU for all the kindness, honesty, trust, warmth, caring and goodness you have shown to me and in return I have the blood of my body all for you my dearest friend.

You I Will Always Cherish.....

There are times in our lives when we least expect it, someone walks right into your life and touches your soul. Even if you know them only for a short period of time but the moments spent with this person and the memories shared are something that cannot be replaced with anything. Sincerity, Honesty, Caring ways and true friendship is what they give you without expecting anything in return. Just when I thought the world is full of materialistic people, people with motives and people who offer friendship and expect something in return, there you walked in and offered nothing but your friendship in its most truest and purest sense.
So my special friend (you know who you are) I am writing this today specially for you for making me know that I am not alone and you will always be there for me. You made my journey for the past two months at this place where I am now beautiful and memorable and something I will cherish for the rest of my life. Not everyone in your life can touch your soul but you are the rarest person I have come to know and have touched my soul in your own unique way and I thank you for that. The next post is a dedication to you to our Special Friendship.