Friday, June 20, 2008

Flying Chillies, Karma Sutra And 99 Hot Spots

Last February(22nd February 2008)-this post is published late due to unavoidable circumstances and the sensitivity of its content- was an interesting night as my Friends who are also my colleagues, celebrated my birthday with dinner at Flying Chillies in Midvalley. About 17 of them turned up for the occasion and made it a memorable night for me. I do have to thank them for the dinner and the Samsonite bag that they bought me for my birthday. Indeed a night to remember and what more with the dinner talk progressing from the comments on the food to 'First-Night'talks and to juicy Karma Sutra- just to tease our colleague who is getting married come this July and then-walla-I popped up the most interesting topic of conversation which many have not heard of - THE 99 HOT SPOTS ON A WOMAN's body. The discussion did not end there as we were interrupted with other peoples conversation and there was just too much of noise in the restaurant to have a decent discussion. However, interestingly enough some colleagues (both female and male) followed-up with me in the office and asked me to explain what I meant by 99 hot spots on a woman's body. Friends, WARNING: You are reading this material at your own risk as it may contain juicy, explicit stuff that may cause disturbance to your already disturbed mind... :) This post is purely artistic in it's true sense of the word and not meant for the faint heart and it is not Porno but knowledge for your stimulating senses. If you are matured or not so matured adult but can handle stuff like this then read on- OTHERWISE STOP! Anyways I don't care... :)

Now, I am not an expert on Sexology or a GURU on Sexology but after many years being around in the world and having spoken to many GURUs And Yogis that I have met in my life about men, women and pleasures in life, research have led me to document that a woman's body is a roadmap of hotspots (erogenous zones- These are supersensivitive spots on the body that can bring about different kind of pleasures and sensual feelings if discovered ) unlike a man's body with a few 'stop-overs' or 'R & R' areas. I will only focus on the main hot zones and not on the less hot zones. Again, warning: THIS IS NOT PORNO.. ;) This is 18 and above material and meant only for adults who are broadminded and crave for stimulating knowledge that is hard to find and want to know more about pleasures that life has to offer. If you are interested read on.......... or get lost....


Lets begin. When it comes to knowing your woman's body, are you in touch with all her sweet spots? That is, are you enjoying all that your woman has to offer? Or do you just stick to what you know? Wham-Bang-Good-Bye-Maam! Well here I will talk about some of the hot spots that you might like to try if you have not done so already. Do take note that the female body has a greater variety of erogenous zones, compared to male one. One may often get to hear from men who consider themselves “experienced” that “women are all alike”. But in reality, only a primitive egocentric person could say a thing like this. The truth is that it is hard to find two women who would be similar from the sexual standpoint. But only that person has a chance to get to know this who seeks not pleasures for himself in his sexual relationships, but an opportunity to please his female partner, to make her happy and full of harmony.
Women are not alike in terms of forms of petting that are adequate for them.
They also are not alike in terms of the kind of a sexual intercourse that can provide the most intense pleasure and satisfaction for them. A woman's body is like a roadmap that needs to be discovered. What every great relationship needs is great foreplay, so that is what I will be starting with... If you can't take it anymore I suggest you stop reading here but if you are still curious (but remember that curiousity killed the cat) then let's get started on our journey through a woman's body, shall we?


Here are some Sweet 'HOT" Spots to get you started:

Lips: Women love to kiss. They exude a lot of emotion through their kisses. Have fun playing with her. If you know how to manipulate her lips just right through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.

Nape of the Neck: Just breathing on this part of her body will give her goose bumps all over. So just imagine her reaction when you use your tongue or teeth to get her aroused.
Do not forget to use your hands as well. Lift her hair up gently as you bring your mouth closer to her neck. Then, as you sink your teeth into it, pull on her hair slightly so as to give that "I want you sooo bad" impression.
This part of a woman's body is also a good place to start giving her that sensual massage you are famous for and no woman can resist.

Ears: Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Although blowing in her ear is acceptable, it's not what women enjoy most. Besides the few little things that I have mentioned they also like it when you whisper in their ears. (This is based on interviews done with many of my female friends who are married but not happy with their sex lives for their husbands find it dirty to lick such objects)
They enjoy sweet nothings not something like, "What time do the playoffs start tonight?" Try to be somewhat erotic and give her the shivers up and down her spine instead. Instead tell her how beautiful she is and how much you love her.

Wrists:This may come as a shock to most guys but did you know that a woman's wrist is an erogenous zone. Women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their partners. The next time you're getting into the foreplay of things with your woman, woo here with soft sensual kisses and caressing her wrists and just check out how impressed and turned on she'll become!

Breasts (nipples): As I am sure this is no surprise to anyone, the breasts are very sexually sensitive and gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing. Just as well, many women like it when their guys get a little rough with their breasts, so find out how she likes it and give it to her the way she wants!

Behind the Knees: Another shock! Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, you'd be surprised at how crazy a woman can become when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees. Soft gentle nibbles and sweet soft butterfly kisses. She will love it. Try it!

Feet: Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Now this of course is assuming that their feet have been properly cleansed, sounds silly but you make the conclusion. Women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles (all are hot zones in their own respective way). Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be pleasant for the recipient. Most men cringe at the thought of wrapping their mouths around a body part that spends most of its day sweating in leather but you should try the idea of giving your woman a good toe lashing every now and then. If you do not like the thought of touching your tongue on her toes, try and make it interesting. Try adding whipped cream or something fun like that. Make it fun, loving your partner is not supposed to be a stressing act.
Buttocks: Yes, it's true. Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of the buttocks. But there's more... Now this is not something that I made up or like to describe but this is for the women who do like it.
Some women like having their butts licked, sucked and penetrated (with fingers, penis or both). For those who shudder at the thought of sticking their tongues out at Uranus perhaps you may want to give it a try and bring variety into your life than just being a boring lover. Inner

Thighs: Yet another shocker! I bet, you may have not tried it yet. Now the inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking, nibbling and licking. Just like the back of the knees, inner thighs also have many nerve endings, therefore when you fondle them, you will turn her on like crazy. Remember not to bite only to nibble gently because the area is very sensitive and doing so would only cause her mild pain. Iam sure that I have saved the best for last. Inner

Arm and Arm-pit: The skin is very thin here, so the lightest touch can give her goose bumps. Gently run your fingertips up and down her inner forearm and lightly stroke her wrist, a sensitive pulse point. You can also gently kiss or nible or lick her arm-pit.

Vagina/Clitoris:The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, the Finger or, for the multi-talented, both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy. The key to a great sex life is communication. Communicate with your partner and be honest as to what you want and enjoy.
For those who have not had that luxury, it's usually quite evident whether or not she's pleased with your performance. For instance if she begins getting squirmy, make sure that it's because she's enjoying it and not because you're giving her that "annoying" feeling. If she is enjoying it you will defiantly see the results of your actions. See will be wet from the vaginal secretions from all the pleasure that you are giving her.
When you are ready to move on to something more and are ready to take her over the edge even more find her g-spot. In the vagina, the G-Spot may be a little difficult to locate, but some women find the search quite worthwhile. There is an area inside some women's vaginas that produces intense sexual feelings when stimulated. Once located, very gentle stimulation gives an incredibly pleasant and unusual sensation. So what are you waiting for......... TREAT YOUR WOMAN LIKE A WOMAN....

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